Carol Dilello

carol dilello

February 14, 1935 ~ May 25, 2024

Born in: New Haven, CT
Resided in: Hamden, CT

Carol Joan Minnix Dilello, 89, of Hamden, died peacefully at her home surrounded by her family on May 25, 2024 after a brief battle with cancer. She was the beloved wife of 68 years to Dominick Dilello. Carol was born in New Haven on February 14, 1935 to the late Carroll Minnix and Clare Derbacher Minnix Holzer.

After growing up in New Haven and graduating from Hillhouse High School in 1952, Hamden became home for the next 63 years.  Carol started her secretarial career in insurance before pausing to raise her children. After they were grown, she went back to work in the medical field for the next 27 years before her retirement. Family was Carol’s top priority, and her grandchildren were her world. She always enjoyed being surrounded by family and friends. Her favorite pastimes included reading, crocheting, trips to the casino and watching the New York Yankees.

Besides her husband, Carol will be loving remembered by her daughter and son-in-law, Karen & Giovanni Lavorgna; her grandchildren and their spouses, Michael & Devan Lavorgna, Melissa & Kevin Gleason, and Amanda & Evan Hoeflich; her great-grandson, Griffin; soon to be great-granddaughter, Madison; her sister, Kathleen Mitchell and her husband Irving; and sister-in-law, Rosemary Holzer. She was predeceased by her son, Michael Dilello; her stepfather, John Holzer; and her brother, John Holzer.

Funeral from BEECHER & BENNETT FUNERAL HOME, 2300 Whitney Ave., Hamden on Thursday, May 30th at 10:30 a.m. for a Mass of Christian Burial in Blessed Sacrament Church, 321 Circular Ave., Hamden at 11:00 a.m., followed by her burial in Beaverdale Memorial Park. Friends are invited to visit with her family on Wednesday, May 29th from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. in the funeral home. Donations in Carol’s memory may be made to Ride Closer to Free at www.rideclosertofree.org or The Connecticut Hospice at www.hospice.com.

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Visitation: May 29, 2024 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Beecher & Bennett Funeral Service - Hamden
2300 Whitney Avenue
Hamden, CT 06518

203-288-0800

Mass of Christian Burial: May 30, 2024 11:00 am

Blessed Sacrament Church
321 Circular Avenue
Hamden, CT 06514


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  1. Dear Dom & family,
    We are very sorry to learn of Carol’s passing. We will always remember her fondly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
    Joe & Susan Derbacher


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