M. Patricia 'Patti' Bellmore

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Mrs. M. Patricia 'Patti' Bellmore, age 62, of Hamden, passed away on April 20, 2009 at CT Hospice in Branford. Patti is the wife of John Bellmore Ret. HFD. Besides her husband she is survived by her daughter & son in-law, Kathleen and her husband Gary Appel of Waxhaw, NC; grandchildren Bryan and Jeremy Appel and her brother Robert Neerman of Seymour. Patti was born in New Haven on December 15, 1946, the daughter of the late Clarence and Katherine Lee Neerman. Mrs. Bellmore's Funeral Service will be Private, there will be no calling hours. Arrangements are in care of BEECHER & BENNETT FUNERAL HOME, 2300 Whitney Ave. Hamden. Contributions in Patti's memory may be made to the Lupus Foundation, CT Chapter, 97 South Street, Suite 110, West Hartford, CT 06110-1960.

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  1. Dear Mrs. Bellmore: If heaven has a good restaurant, then get a nice table near the window and save me a seat. We almost made it to 50 years! I can’t imagine my life without you in it. I love and miss you! Ms. Delaney

  2. Our heartfelt sympathy for your loss. We love you! the Leonard’s Paul, Frannie, Kyle, Courtney and Madeline

  3. To the Bellmore Family: May Angels dry your tears and God heal your hurting hearts…. John, my deepest sympathies goes out to you and your family. She’ll be the ray of sunshine in your windows and the crisp fresh air when you breathe in…… she’ll ALWAYS be there for you to guide, direct & love you still unconditionally! Again, my deepest sympathies– .J-9., .smiley. Jeanine Aceto,Hamden Fire

  4. We have such fond memories of Patti–especially our bus stop chats on Gristmill Lane, the boys birthday picnics, afternoons by her pool. Her warm and gentle way will be missed very much. All our love, Tom, Tracey (aka Tess), Marissa and Kayla

  5. Dear John, we are so sorry to hear about the passing of Patti. We have such fond memories of our corvette get togethers, pinics at our house and christmas parties and she was always such a lady and always wore such a beautiful smile. Patti will be watching over you.John you are in our prayers, it is never easy but with family and friends you will get though this. With our deepest sympathy and love, Your Corvette Friends, Bob, Jo-Ann and J.R. Amantea

  6. Dear John, We are so sorry to hear of Patti’s passing.She was such a sweet person and she will be missed by all who knew her.

  7. Dear John: I am very sorry for your loss of your wife Patti,although I have never met her I know she was a wounderful wife,and mother. Call me if I can help you in any way,Bill

  8. Dear John: Local 2687 sends it’s deepest sympathy to you with the passing of your wife Patti

  9. John, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Patti was a great person. She will be missed by all of us. Frank and Kathy Aveni

  10. John, So sorry to hear about the passing of your wife. Although I haven’t seen you or Patti in several years, I think of the fun times we had all those years ago. May God bless her, Dick Dube

  11. John, we can’t express in words how sorry we are for your great loss. Remember we are close by if you need anything at all. Fred & Kay

  12. John, We were very sorry to hear of your loss of Patti.If we can help you in anyway during this grieving time please don’t hesitate to call us. Joe&June&Bill Rahl

  13. John, again so sorry for the loss of Patti we are thinking of you and Kathy and her family Love your favorite cousin Barbara , Paul , Melissa and John-Paul

  14. John, Celia And I are very sorry, wish there was something We could say to make the pain go away. With deepest sympathy Deker And Celia

  15. John, I was very sorry to hear of your wife’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Tom Coria Branford, Ct.

  16. John, Very sorry for your loss. Patti was a great person Marty and I will be praying for her and your family. Mark B

  17. John, We are very sorry for your loss. You have our deepest sympathies. Sincerely, Janet and Kevin Shields

  18. John, You and your family have our deepest sympathy for your loss. Know that you have the love and support of all of us if you ever need us.

  19. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Our deepest sympathies. Nick and Kellie Despotakis and family

  20. Dear John, I am profoundly sorry to learn of of the passing of Patti and wish to express my sympathy to you, Kathy and the family. I have wonderful memories of this very special and brave lady. May she rest in peace. Love, Carol Binkowski

  21. Dear John, My deepest condolences on the death of Patti. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  22. Dear Mr. Bellmore, With our deepest sympathy on your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Ernest & Maureen (Shields) Leonardo

  23. John Cindy and I were very sadden to hear of the passing of Patti. Our prayers go out to you and your family with our deepest sympathy. Dave & Cindy

  24. John….hope all is well. I know it’s hard losing someone so close. Time don’t heal all, but it gets a little easier to deal….take care.

  25. John, Very sorry for your loss. Patti was a great person Marty and I will be praying for her and your family. Mark B

  26. Reminiscing with my son Tom in Alabama about Patti & John, Patti was an amazing soul and we will meet again ❤️

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