Matthew Poli Nolan

matthew nolan

March 6, 1984 ~ April 4, 2025

Born in: New Haven, Connecticut
Resided in: North Haven, Connecticut

Matthew Poli Nolan, 41, of North Haven, passed away on April 4, 2025. Born in New Haven on March 6, 1984, and survived by parents Timothy Poli and Ellyn (Shields) Nolan, Matthew was a devoted husband and father and leaves behind his loving wife Jennifer (Kendall) Nolan and daughters Annie Lynn and Katie Ellyn Nolan. He is also survived by his two older brothers and their families; Timothy Poli (Jr.). and Diana Nolan, parents of Bridget, Owen, and Molly; and Adam Poli and Jennifer Nolan, parents of Blake and Bryce. Additionally, Matthew leaves behind his loving family by marriage, mother-in-law Marita Roddy and sister-in-law Krissy Kendall. Beyond his immediate family members, Matthew’s life was also blessed by an expansive and wonderful extended family, all of whom will all miss him dearly.

While too short by far, Matthew lived a life full of joy and laughter and loved sharing experiences with others. Growing up in the Spring Glen neighborhood of Hamden, or “The Glen” as he and his boisterous friends dubbed it, Matthew excelled in everything, including academics, sports, and theater. Each of these aspects grew and evolved with him over the course of his life. He was a star baseball player in his youth and traded the diamond for links in adulthood, enjoying countless rounds of golf with his friends. His love of music and theater in particular, stayed with him through his whole life, with friends and family alike left with countless memories of Matthew belting out showtunes or Billy Joel numbers whenever possible (and maybe sometimes when he probably shouldn’t have). Later in life, he converted his desire to help others into multiple small businesses whose work continues to benefit the communities he leaves behind. Matthew was also by far the weakest Boggle player in his family, and could never even dream of beating either of his brothers, who were definitely better than him.

Friends are invited to visit with Matthew’s family on Thursday April 10, 2025, from 3:00-7:00pm in Beecher & Bennett Funeral Home, 2300 Whitney Ave. Hamden. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday April 11, 2025 at 11:00am at St. Paul VI Parish/St. Rita Church, 1620 Whitney Ave. Hamden. Interment will follow in St. Mary’s Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions towards his family may be made via GoFundMe : Go Fund Me for Matthew Poli Nolan. For condolences, or to share a memory with Matthew’s family, please see his obituary at www.beecherandbennett.com

Services

Visitation: April 10, 2025 3:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Beecher & Bennett Funeral Service - Hamden
2300 Whitney Avenue
Hamden, CT 06518

203-288-0800

Mass of Christian Burial: April 11, 2025 11:00 am

St. Rita Church
1620 Whitney Avenue
Hamden, CT 06517

203-248-5513

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  1. We were so very sad to hear that Matt passed. We have many memories of the hockey years and the wonderful friendship that all the boys shared. Our prayers are with all of Matt’s family.
    Love,
    The Cofrancescos

  2. Very sad to read about Matthew Nolan’s passing, he was an amazing young man and was a successful business man.
    Our thoughts are with Matthew’s family,
    Charlie Flanagan
    Katherine Kennedy

  3. Your light will continue to shine through so many Matthew. Your caring thoughts and devotion you put towards myself and others were absolutely remarkable. One of the closest friends I have had for my entire life, I will cherish our memories forever. I love you pal, until we meet again.

  4. Matt was one of a kind. Confident, engaging, charismatic. He represented the best of his family and all of his friends. This is such a terrible loss to everyone who knew him but we are all better for having Matt in our world. My deepest condolences to his wife and daughters, parents and brothers as well as their families. Sending you all love and prayers.

  5. Words cannot express what an honor it was to have you in my life and family. You leave an empty space that cannot be filled. Rest with the angels. And then open up another Ground Up Coffee. Love you! 💕❤️💕❤️

  6. A person like Matt passes through very rarely. He was a great friend, husband and gamesman. God Bless

  7. You are all in our thoughts as you go through this most difficult time in your lives. We pray that you will find peace and joy in your memories and the support of your wonderful family. Please know that we are here and able to help if needed.
    With love and sympathy
    Marianne and Mark Enslein

  8. Matt was one of my all-time favorite students. His laughter and smile will always be remembered. He remains forever young in my memory and in my heart. His spirit will shine brightly in all who knew him, and last until the end of time. My deepest condolences to Jenny, his family and his girls.
    Christine Frumento

  9. Dear Ellyn, Tim & Family,

    With our deepest sympathy to you and your family at this difficult time. May all your beautiful memories be held close within your hearts. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May Matt find peace, love and eternal rest in the gracious arms of our Lord.

    Love, Ernie and Maureen

  10. We have the great hope that we will see Matt again.
    “Through Jesus, you believe in God who raised him from the dead, and so your faith, and hope are in God.”
    1 Peter 1:21
    I pray for Matt’s family and loved ones. May you rest in the hope of the Lord as your strength at this time.
    Sincerely, because of Jesus,
    A friend, Elizabeth Lopez

  11. We were very saddened by the passing of Matt. May God give your family the strength to endure this tragedy. Sincerely, The Kissels

  12. Dear Tim, Ellyn and Family,
    We are saddened to hear of Matthew’s passing. Our condolences to all the Nolan family and his wife and girls. The Nolan’s/Shield’s have been a bright light in the “Spring Glen” family. May the light shine upon Matthew and all of you, during this difficult time.
    Eileen and Briana O’Neill.

  13. Hey nols I love you buddy. I’m so glad we kept in touch thanks in large part to u and your big heart. Rest easy and say hello to my dad. I remember how much he liked you and ur dad. Remember when I was sleeping with you and ur dad at the tournament and I saw your dad get up to use the bathroom in the middle of the night. Wish they had robes lmfao..and my dip overflowed the toilet. Nols the memories are not going anywhere. Love you kid rest now.

  14. Dear Nolan Family, The Robert Lyons, Sr. Family sends it deepest condolences on the loss of Matthew Poli, from his eyes we can tell he was clearly a shining star for his family, children, and others. His loss is incomprehensible and hard to fathom, but we hope you can garner his strong spirit to go on as you know he would want you to. We will try to do the same.
    With our love and condolences,
    Robert Lyons, Sr. Family

  15. Mrs. Nolan, Annie and Katie.
    My heart is in pieces for your great loss. You will
    All forever be in my heart and prayers. If you need anything please do not hesitate. Stay strong. Love, Kim DelVecchio


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