A. Lee Campione

October 19, 1933 ~ March 14, 2025
Born in:
Montreal, Canada
Resided in:
Wallingford, CT
A. Lee Campione (nee Scowen), EMBA, BA – 91, of Wallingford, died unexpectedly and peacefully Friday, March 14, 2025. Born on October 19, 1933, in Montreal, Quebec, Canada to the late P.H. Scowen and Eulah Reed, Lee’s early years were spent living in Quebec. On a gap-year trip to Europe, she met her husband-to-be in Lausanne, Switzerland.
For 51 years, she was the wife and partner of Dr. Matthew P. Campione, a much loved and respected surgeon. During their life together, Matt and Lee made homes in New York City, Waterbury and Meriden Connecticut. They loved their time at their second home, Reedville Farm in North Hatley, Quebec. They enjoyed travel to Europe, Canada and the U.S. and made many happy memories. Matt died in 2006.
Lee served as a community advocate and volunteer in many organizations, devoting her energies primarily to women, children, the arts and justice. She was founder of the Meriden Day Care Center and Meriden Community Vision and she was the first chairperson of the Neighborhood Preservation Commission.
As a result of her deep commitment, she was honored with The Meriden Chamber of Commerce Community Partnership Award, the Midstate Medical Center Crystal Obelisk Award, the Girls Inc. Strong, Smart & Bold Honoree award, the Regional Rotary Jean Harris Award, the Meriden Rotary Howard Houston Award, MEDCO’s Business Learning Centre Civic Excellence Award, and the Curtis Home Lemuel Curtis Award.
Lee also served as the first woman on the board of directors at Central Bank for Savings and Perkins Paper Company. She was a valued member on boards of directors, namely the board of trustees of Choate Rosemary Hall, the Meriden Chamber of Commerce, the Curtis Home, St. Andrew’s Church, the Augusta Curtis Cultural Centre, Community Vision and MEDCO.
Lee’s other passion was entertaining and she was a truly spectacular hostess. She loved gathering people either to a small dinner or a big party. Invitations were often impromptu. No matter where she lived, Lee created beautiful and welcoming homes for her many dear friends to enjoy.
Lee and Matt were blessed with four daughters, Annis, Cathy, Martha and Christine; nine grandchildren, Jenna, Alta, Abigail, Cordelia, Hillary, Jessye, Benjamin, Alissa and Logan; nine great-grandchildren, Greylin, Vivienne, Oliver, Haley, Gloria, Tommy, Leyzer, Zalman and Zelda; sons-in-law, Joel Stein, Bill Maksym and Tony Rioux; grandsons-in-law, Sean, Jonathan, Ira and Naftali. She was beloved Aunt Lee to her many nieces and nephews.
After Matt’s death, Lee enjoyed 10 years in the company of her dear friend and partner, Marvin Kalisch until his death in 2018. Marvin’s daughter Andrea Casey, and her husband Rick, were a great comfort to Lee.
Lee is also survived by her brother Philip Scowen and sister-in-law Monique of Sherbrooke, Quebec.
Lee enjoyed the last seven years of her life making and renewing deep friendships at Ashlar Village.
Friends are invited to join the family for A Celebration of Lee’s Life on Thursday, April 10, 2025 at 1:00 p.m. in the Hartog Building Auditorium in Ashlar Village, 74 Cheshire Road, Wallingford, CT 06492. Private burial will be in Reedsville Cemetery in North Hatley, QC at a later date.
In lieu of flowers please consider making a donation to the ACLU Connecticut – 765 Asylum Avenue, Hartford, CT 06105 or at https://action.aclu.org/give/ct-tribute-gift-donation. Beecher & Bennett Funeral Home in care of arrangements. To leave a condolence for her family, please see obituary at www.beecherandbennett.com.
We have lost a terrific sister and sister-in-law. You leave us with many wonderful memories. Rest in peace.
Aunt Lee will be remembered for the wonderful memories we shared with her and Uncle Matt and your family. Aunt Lee’s legacy will be cherished by all who knew her. Please accept our heartfelt
condolences.
She was always interested in what ever we did.
A truly remarkable person
Rest in Peace
Love
Peter, Sharon, Bryan and Scott Campione
I had the honor of working with Lee on a number of Boards and committees. She was a life-time member of the Friends of the Meriden Public Library, a founding member of the Meriden Economic Development Corporation (MEDCO) among many more. She was a joy to work with and will be missed.
We dare not eat improperly at her table; or get out of line with what she deemed inappropriate conversations. She taught us well!
When I was sick, she would bring food to my house or pick up medications and I was in my sixties!
Lord, what a force of nature! ❤️love, love her.
Our deepest sympathies to all the family.
Denise Robert & Denys Arcand
I was lucky enough to have shared a proper tea with Lee, my mom, and Annis at Uplànds, and to have been an occasional guest in her beautiful North Hatley home. She was a force of nature. It was a life well lived. Rest in peace.
Lee was my cousin by marriage only, but I always felt much closer to her than that. ❤️
Each summer when Gord, our children : Greg, Bruce, Beverley and Daphne and I visited Mom & Dad, Helen and Stuart, in Rock Island, a highlight of our time there was a visit or two to see our North Hatley family. You all made us feel so welcome. Precious memories of your mother, sister, grandmother and aunt. God bless her : Lee, a very special lady. ❤️🙏🏻
You were there since my birth in Lausanne and were a constant presence in my life and best friends to my parents !
I will miss you !
Condolences to your Family
Alan
Had a lovely conversation at Mary Scowens 80th with Aunt Lee. A true crown straightener of all women! What a life well lived
Patti Selfe
Sending my deepest condolences to the whole family.
My deepest condolences to Lee’s family. I had the privilege of knowing Lee through our love of St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church. Never did she say no when asked for anything. In these last few years we met occasionally to share breakfast at Huxley’s which was an absolute delight. She made every conversation special. I will miss her. She was a light in all our lives.
Mrs. C was my first feminist. She opened my 14 year old eyes to the character of a strong woman. . I am forever grateful.
Sending love to her family.
I was able to have a wonderful conversation with Aunt Lee in Burlington a short time ago. She had an easy way to her, an open heart and listening to her was a lovely experience. A gracious woman among women. Rest easy. You will be remembered always.
My husband Jim and I were lucky and blessed to have had Lee as our neighbor on Hillcrest Terrace. She has been a true inspiration in the way she treated people and made them feel part of something bigger than themselves, a real community builder. Lee united people through her hospitality, neighborhood picnics, special tea parties and her love of the Thursday Morning Club. Our condolences to the family in the loss of your dear mother Lee. You have our sympathy, Tracy and Jim Monopoli
The Midstate Chamber of Commerce (Meriden, CT) extends sincere condolences to the family and friends of Lee. We were honored to have known her and have so many fond memories to hold close to us, personally and professionally. There is not enough space here to do her memory justice. Extremely involved, committed, humble, kind. An amazing woman who was a pioneer and left behind a legacy of all that is right. She received our Community Partnership Award in 1994. She was honored locally over the years by a number of area agencies. I recall so many lovely poems she submitted for Girls, Inc. and Women & Families Center event fundraiser books that included encouraging words to young girls and women in this journey called life. I was blessed with being in Lee’s company last year as we attended an event together. I will cherish that evening and our lovely conversation. Thank you, Lee, for being part of our world. – Rosanne P. Ford, President, Midstate Chamber of Commerce
The Coleman family sends sincerest sympathy to Lee’s family in this time of loss. We had the pleasure of knowing Lee (and Matt) also from Hillcrest Terrace days. She will be missed by many…
Joan, Sarah, Emily & Daniel