Michael Carlos David Tomlinson

michael tomlinson

September 5, 1946 ~ July 28, 2025

Born in: New Haven, CT
Resided in: Woodbridge, CT

Michael Carlos David Tomlinson, 78, loving husband of the late Diane McNeill Carvalho Tomlinson, who recently passed away on June 2, 2025, died unexpectedly on July 28, 2025, in Griffin Hospital surrounded by friends and family. He was also predeceased by his first wife, Pauline Tomlinson, who passed away on July 26, 2004. He was born in New Haven on September 5, 1946, a son of the late Sidney and Winifred Smith Tomlinson, and was a lifelong resident of Woodbridge.

After high school, he proudly served in the U.S. Navy for 4 years during the Vietnam War aboard the U.S.S. Hancock. He was employed by the S.N.E.T. Co. for many years in the data center, training, and IT Project Management prior to his retirement. Michael was a member and officer of the Grange, a member and former Deacon of the First Church of Christ in Woodbridge, and was a frequent patron at the Woodbridge Social. He also enjoyed vacationing at their timeshares in Pompano Beach, FL and traveling abroad to visit friends in England. He enjoyed doing crossword puzzles, cooking, and hosting regular Monday night family dinners.

Michael was the loving father of Julie (Grant) Kavanah and Scott (Adrienne) Tomlinson, both of Seymour, his children with his first wife, the late Pauline Tomlinson. He was the stepfather of Ben (Debra) Carvalho of Liberty Hill, TX and Jennifer Carvalho of Bethany. Grandfather of Eric and Sydney Marcinko, Ava and Riley Tomlinson, and step-grandfather of Kristen, Cain, Caitlyn, Alexander, and Leif Carvalho.

He was the brother of Debra (Rich) Wilkins of Ansonia and Judith (Alex) Cofrancesco of Bethany, and he is also survived by several nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, and cousins.

Friends are invited to visit with Michael’s family on Thursday, August 7th from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m. at Beecher & Bennett Funeral Home, 2300 Whitney Ave., Hamden. U.S. Naval Military Honors will be presented at 6:00 p.m. His family requests that in lieu of flowers, you consider a donation to the Wounded Warrior Project.

To send a condolence, please see his obituary at www.beecherandbennett.com.

Services

Visitation: August 7, 2025 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm

Beecher & Bennett Funeral Service - Hamden
2300 Whitney Avenue
Hamden, CT 06518

203-288-0800

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  1. Rick & I are so sorry for your loss of Micheal. W I was 1st cousin to Diane , so I’m just so sad for all of you!!! Prayers & God Bless🙏🙏🙏🙏

  2. We are all so very sorry for the families loss of a great man. Always so friendly, always smiling.

  3. Sorry for your loss. I bowled with Mike for many years before he stopped bowling. He was always full of joy. He will be missed. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  4. Praying for all of your family! I got to know Mike when I worked at CSC. He always had a smile on his face and throughly enjoyed life! I will miss him greatly and miss his text messages just keeping me up to date on his life. RIP Mike!!

  5. I was so saddened to hear about Mike’s passing, or as I more affectionately knew him, “Beer Mike.” There is so much I could say about him since I knew him all my life. I have countless fond memories of going to his house as a kid. He always let me and my brother, Garrett, play with the pool table or pretend to be bartenders. Back then, that basement was the coolest place a kid could hang out in.

    It was always a fun surprise when Beer Mike would pull up in his truck with his beloved passenger “Big Fat Lala” (from Teletubbies) to enjoy a cold one with my parents around a fire on summer nights or camping at Yogi Bear during May Days. There was always laughter when Mike was around.

    He took care of me and Garrett on more than one occasion when my parents were away. Beer Mike was more than just a friend of my parents when I was growing up, he was family.

    I am wishing him peace and good company with loved ones on the other side. My deepest sympathies to Mike’s family and all who were lucky enough to have him in their lives.

  6. We send our deepest condolences to Mike’s and Diane’s families. We got to know them both at Woodbridge Social, and we always enjoyed our conversations with Mike. He was always upbeat with a ready smile-he was the real deal, and a wonderful man. He will be sorely missed!


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