Allen L. Carver
August 30, 1948 ~ April 29, 2022
Born in:
Boothbay, ME
Resided in:
Meriden, CT
Allen Lee Carver, 73, husband of Bonnie (Perry) Carver, passed away on April 29, 2022 at Midstate Medical Center in Meriden. He was born on August 30, 1948 in Boothbay, Maine. After graduating high school Allen worked in sheet metal fabrication until his retirement.
All arrangements are private at the request of his family.
A tribute to my Al. I told him he was the only person that has made me feel loved. He responded thats because I love you. No matter what Tirrena and I came first. He has never said a harsh word about anybody. Politics excluded. He has always had my back no matter what. AA gave me my sobriety and God gave me Al. He has had a hard painful battle with cancer for about 8 years. It took at least that long to find where it was coming from. That was the painful part but he just kept going. This last year was the worst. I have never known a stronger man. He was so worried about what it was doing to us more than for himself. Wednesday was his last dr. appointment…..and there was nothing more they could do. And there was nothing that my Al wouldnt do for me…..just not fair….Well The very next day he went to the ED…. He is out of pain now. I told him he wasnt the best so far, he is the best! He was still alert and said oh Bonnie. I was a lucky gal I’ll tell you. God grant me the serenity to except the things I can not change and the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference. See you on the other side my Al………I love you.
My most heartfelt condolences to his son Allen L Carver Jr, his daughter Shannon, granddaughter Brianna, and grandsons Kain and Logan Carver.
Whistle and Go Fishing into Heaven…..
Thank you from his wife Bonnie Carver and our daughter Tirrena Lee Carver
Thank you from the bottom of your hearts. The memorial went great. A lot of friends and family went and I want to thank all of them.
Sincerely,
Shannon Lee Carver Ortiz and Family.
My deepest condolences to my step sister Shannon and step brother Allen Jr (aka little Allen). Big Allen came into my life in the late 70′ and I was just a little girl. Allen was an amazing man with a HUGE heart and so much love to give all of us kids.
Allen, may you rest in peace. I am completely heartbroken with your passing. You were a HUGE part of my life as you raised my brother and I. You gave us an amazing life. Trips to Maine, camping, fishing and long drives. And I thank you for the life you gave me and all of us.
The memories will always live inside of all of us kids.
Carrie
Oh Carrie that was so nice. Hope all is well with you. Love Bonnie and our daughter Tirrena.
My deepest condolences to my step sister Shannon and step brother Allen Jr (aka little Allen). Big Allen came into my life in the late 70′ and I was just a little girl. Allen was an amazing man with a HUGE heart and so much love to give all of us kids.
Allen, may you rest in peace. I am completely heartbroken with your passing. You were a HUGE part of my life as you raised my brother and I. You gave us an amazing life. Trips to Maine, camping, fishing and long drives. And I thank you for the life you gave me and all of us.
The memories will always live inside of all of us kids.
Carrie
When I found out you passed it took the breath right of me and tore my heart out. I know you are in heaven a little upset at the situation but Dad its ok I will see you when I come up to heaven. It just really hurts that I will never heart my dad say love you sweetie and blow me a kiss over the phone every time we talked. So I am blowing you a kiss to heaven every day until I see you again. You well be very Missed by ALL of the family and friends you have touched in their lives. I know you are at peace now seeing NaNa your mother and grandpa Richard too. Say hi for me. Love you with all of my heart pops and make a room for me cause you are the first person I want to see when I get up to heaven.
Love always,
Your Daughter Shannon Lee Carver Ortiz
& Family
It’s really sad that his wife couldn’t have the respect for Allen to notify his 2 older and his 2 first kids about his passing. It’s really sad that Allens’ 2 older and first kids had to do a separate service, but at least his 2nd service was what he deserved. A service filled with people who loved Allen.
Thank you soo much Carrie.
In the 20 years that I knew and worked with AL, he was a great person in every way, always there to help when I needed him, I will miss him dearly. He is surely in God’s hands.
AL Nigretti
I thought this would be deleted. Since it wasnt, I have to say I don’t remember you Carrie being by my Al’s bedside with me. Al and I discussed what would happen when the end arrived. The Suday before he passed I took him to meet with your step siblings and he told them he was terminal. Of course she had to leave the visit early. He died that following Thursday. Maybe the word terminal was confusing for them. Also there was only 1 service. They had one for him. That way we both agreed I wouldnt have to deal with nasty people.