Donald Stott Cady, 61, of Southington formerly of Cheshire, loving husband of Janet Adams Cady passed away unexpectedly Oct. 5, 2007 while vacationing in Florida. Mr. Cady was born in Syracuse, NY, Nov. 25, 1945 a son of the late Donald and Bernice Stott Cady. He served in the US Air Force from 1964 - 1968. Mr. Cady graduated with a Bachelor of Science Degree from the University of New Haven in 1973. He was a Senior Systems Consultant for the Computer Sciences Corp. in East Hartford, CT since 1982. In addition to his wife, he is survived by a daughter, Tara Cady Gromala and her husband, Stephen Gromala of Meriden, a son, Scott M. Cady of Boston, MA, close family friend Denise Milton of Cheshire, a sister, Barbara Cady Spitzer of Webster, NY, sister-in-law, Dr. Joann Cady of Knoxville, TN, brother-in-law, Robert Adams and his companion, Barbara Tangredi of Port Orange, FL, 3 nieces and 4 nephews. He was predeceased by a brother, Gary Cady. Funeral service Saturday, Oct. 13, at 10 a.m. at BEECHER & BENNETT, 2300 WHITNEY AVE., HAMDEN. Friends may call Friday from Oct. 12 from 4-8 p.m. Interment with Military Honors in Hillside Cemetery, Cheshire.

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  1. Dear Jan and Family, Lorraine called to tell me of Don’s passing. I am deeply saddened. I know you will miss him greatly. I pray that you find your strength and that your family and friends comfort you and help you during this very difficult time. I’m holding you in my thoughts. Love Linda Vessicchio

  2. Dear Janet, I am so saddened to read about Don’s passing. My heart goes out to you and your children. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy in your time of great sorrow. I hope we can get together in the near future. God bless you all. Love, Nette Cassella

  3. Don Cady family and friends. Don will surely be missed, he was always a pleasure to work with and a real gentleman to be around. I wish you the best in your sadness, my thoughts are with you.

  4. I am so sorry to hear about Don. I was away the past week and just found out. I worked with Don at CSC since 1983. He was a great guy and will really be missed. He always had a smile for everyone. You and your family are in my prayers. Joyce Murphy

  5. I am sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Always remember the good times you shared.

  6. I knew Don from working at CSC for he and myself had many conversations on the insurance company AEgon and the PerformancePlus system. I always thought of him as a very gracious and caring man. We spoke often on books for he always seem to have a book to read during lunch. My prayers are with you and your family.

  7. I never had the pleasure of working directly with Don, but from what I could see, he was a gentle and kind person and very dedicated. He will be missed greatly. My prayers are with you.

  8. I worked with Don for several years and always found him a kind and gentle soul. God bless you, his family and friends. We will miss him greatly.

  9. Janet & Family, We were very saddened to hear about Don. He was such a wonderful man. My husband Tom worked with Don in CT and FL. They were good friends. Tom and I both have great memories of him. We hope that you and your family can celebrate the wonderful times you all had as a family. May these memories fill your hearts with comfort and love. He will be missed by many. May it help to know that our thoughts and sincere sympathy are with you at this sad time, The O’Connor Family (Tom, Sue & Caitie)

  10. My thoughts and prayers are with Don’s family during this time of sadness. It has been my pleasure to work with Don this year. Don was always pleasant to work with and eager to accept new challenges.

  11. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Cady Family. Don was the nicest, gentle and caring man. He will be greatly missed. We both knew Don while working at Aegon in St. Petersburg, FL. Vicki worked with Don on the same system(s) and always appreciated his kind and gentle nature. We share in your loss. God Bless!

  12. Stevie, Tara & family, We are so sorry for your loss. If you need anything please let us know. With our thoughts and prayers, Cyndy, Steven, Michael and Meghan Skurtowicz

  13. Tara, I am so sorry about your dad. I know how I felt when my dad passed away. He will always be in your heart. Always, Denise

  14. Tara, I am very sorry to hear of the passing of your dad. Please accept my sincere sympathy for you and your mom. Jessica’s dad, Lou Rinaldi, Sr.

  15. Tara, I’m sorry I won’t be able to be there on Friday. Please know that my thoughts are with you.

  16. Though I never got the chance to meet Don in person, I had been working with him since February on project for Aegon (TCM in Cedar Rapids). He was a great person and always up beat and will be sorely missed by all those who’s life he touched. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely Karen Hacke.

  17. To the Cady family, I’m so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

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