Elizabeth (Betty) Hucke
November 9, 1930 ~ September 25, 2023
Born in:
Brooklyn, NY
Resided in:
Wallingford, CT
Elizabeth (Betty) Hucke, 92, passed away peacefully on September 25, 2023 at Pond Ridge Assisted Living at Ashlar Village in Wallingford, CT.
Betty was born in Brooklyn, NY on November 9, 1930 to Elisabeth and Daniel McCarron. She married her life partner Roy on the cold and snowy February 13, 1955. They settled in Massapequa Park, NY, where Betty taught nursery school for many years, hosted family holiday gatherings, parties and played Canasta with The Motley Crew – her and Roy’s lifelong group of friends that grew up on the same block in Ozone Park, Queens. Betty loved decorating her house, inside and out, for even the smallest holiday.
In 1986, Betty & Roy relocated to Orange, CT and made new memories and further lifelong friendships, complete with house decorating and numerous parties. She loved working in the garden and having annual disagreements with the deer who loved her salad bowl of plantings! She was active in the Orange Congregational Church and The Garden Club of Orange, traveled the world and enjoyed spending winters in Marco Island, FL.
In 2007 the All-American couple moved to Ashlar Village in Wallingford, CT, where Betty continued her love of hosting parties and attending social events. Her “Cluster” parties were legendary. She and Roy became famous at Ashlar as the “perfect” couple for photo shoots and television ads living the Ashlar mantra – #BeAgeless. She loved being able to lock her front door, go to Florida for months or take a European vacation, and have no worries. In her downtime she could be found at a slot machine at a casino.
Betty had a lifelong love of sewing including making her own and her daughter’s wedding gowns, creating Barbie and American Girl doll clothes, Halloween costumes, and even upholstering furniture. Her active involvement in the Specialty Shop at Ashlar led her to sewing all kinds of unique items. If she wasn’t at her sewing machine, she had a needle in her hand, creating beautiful embroidery pieces.
Betty’s spirited personality helped her live life to the fullest every single day, often enjoying a good cup of coffee, or an Old Fashioned, or a glass of Chateau St. Michelle chardonnay.
Betty is survived by her loving husband Roy of 67 years, daughters Betty Jane Meier (Frank) and Katherine Wildman (Peter) along with two wonderful grandchildren, Katelyn and Christopher and additional family members and many friends. It was the memories she shared with these loved ones that led her to live by her mantra for the past several years, “We had a GOOD life.”
A Celebration of Life Service will be held at Ashlar Village on Sunday, October 15th at 3 p.m. A reception will follow. To honor Betty’s love of fashion, guests are encouraged to wear her favorite color, blue, or any other bright hue. Donations in Betty’s name can be made to Masonic Charity Foundation of CT, P.O. Box 70, Wallingford, CT 06492.
We never met ‘Betty’ but heard sone loving stories. A loss is never easy, especially a mom’s. Hopefully knowing she lived a wonderful life and had a loving family so many friends throughout will help you through this difficult and sad time. Hold fast to the memories they will guide you through for years to come
– Fondly, Noreen and Rich
Kathy and families,
We never met ‘Betty’ but heard sone loving stories. A loss is never easy, especially a mom’s. Hopefully knowing she lived a wonderful life and had a loving family so many friends throughout will help you through this difficult and sad time. Hold fast to the memories they will guide you through for years to come
– Fondly, Noreen and Rich
Dear Roy and family:
Such a wonderful woman. So many memories of Betty and Roy in Marco. They were the first couple we met. It was at the Saturday donut gathering. I loved our chicki dinners, sunset cruises and wonderful times. I am praying for you, Roy. Miss you all so much.
Love,
Nancy
I remember both you and Betty from OCC. Betty was such a dear person and a joy to chat with. She was always willing to help with anything with an infectious smile. So sorry to hear of her passing. Know that you and you family are in my thoughts and prayers!
Much love ,
Debbie Zaleha
Sending my most sincere condolences to Roy, and the rest of the Hucke family. My parents, Margaret and Bob Eichman first met Betty and Roy in 1986 at The Orange Congregational Church, and were long time friends. I last spoke to Roy in 2017 when cleaning out my parent’s home, and found 2 tins with Betty and Roy’s wedding photo from their 50th Anniversary party. (such a handsome couple, and if anyone wants the tins I still have them). Sending thoughts, and prayers. All my best and blessings, Robin Eichman-Swan, Milford, CT
Dear Roy, I was so sorry to learn of the passing of your beloved Betty. She was such a special person and a fantastic member of The Garden Club of Orange, always contributing to our meetings, luncheons, fund raisers and graciously hosting the Silver Tea at your home. She was beautiful – inside and out.
My deepest sympathy is extended to you and your family. With love and prayers, Gail Nixon