Joseph Paul Derbacher
November 27, 1927 ~ February 8, 2026
Born in:
New Haven, CT
Resided in:
Hamden, CT
Joseph Paul (Joe) Derbacher, 98, of Hamden passed away peacefully on February 8, 2026. He was born in New Haven on November 27, 1927 to the late Karl Derbacher, Sr. and Ruth Andersen Derbacher. He was predeceased by his wife, Barbara, his daughter, Lisa Matusovich, and his brother, Karl Derbacher, Jr.
Joseph served in the United States Air Force from 1950 to 1954, where he met his lifelong friend Mickey Sutton. He enjoyed being stationed in Germany and loved “Air Force life.” He was part of the first NATO mission in Europe. After leaving the US Air Force, Joseph worked for Western Electric and transitioned to SNET as a stock maintenance manager.
Joseph was heavily involved in his parish, Church of the Blessed Sacrament. He was active in the Holy Name Society Duck Bowling League. Always supportive of his church, he became a Eucharistic Minister and distributed communion at mass and every Friday at Yale New Haven Hospital. He was an advocate and supporter of St. Judes Hospital for Children.
Above all else, Joseph was very proud of his family. He was “Boopa” to his granddaughter Kolby and enjoyed attending her school activities, field trips and watching “his girls” at their dance recitals. He enjoyed sharing his knowledge with his son-in-law Robert as they worked on numerous home projects.
Joseph cherished his friends Mickey, Finbar, Joe, Ann, and Dick. He loved attending weekend races with Joe and spoke fondly of them.
Everyone who met Joseph loved him. He was a gentleman, kind, caring and respectful. After he would hang up from his daily morning phone calls with both of his daughters, he would be out and about and could be seen driving throughout Hamden in his Mercedes. When he got home, he would wind down for the day with a CC and ginger and Turner Classic Movies.
Joseph is survived by his daughter, Susan (Ann), his granddaughter, Kolby, his son-in-law, Robert, and his nephews, Karl, Robert, and their families.
Friends are invited to attend his Mass of Christian Burial, which will be celebrated at 11:00 a.m. Saturday, February 14, 2026 at St. Paul VI Parish/Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church, 2819 Whitney Avenue, Hamden. Burial with Military Honors will be at a later date. Donations in Joe’s memory may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, www.stjude.org/donate. To send a condolence to his family, please see his obituary at: www.beecherandbennett.com.
Services
Mass of Christian Burial: February 14, 2026 11:00 am
Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church
2819 Whitney Avenue
Hamden, CT 06518
203-248-0141
Gail Jones
I’ll always remember the fun times we had sitting on our front porches talking and laughing. Such good memories! He was such a kind man. I saw him two or three years ago at a hockey game and he looked amazing.
I am so sorry, Kolby and Susan. He lived a good long life and may he rest in peace. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Susan my sincere sympathy on dads passing. He is with your Mom and sister. I always enjoyed my time working with him on various committees at Church, when he’d give that little laugh when he disagreed on something. He will be missed that’s for sure. May he Rest in Peace.
Suz-I was so sad to hear about the passing of your Dad. What a wonderful man he was who had such a loving, devoted Daughter in you. May all the special memories that you hold in your heart comfort you.
With love and sympathy,
Gale Bentley