Ronald B. Remer

ronald remer

August 14, 1950 ~ October 8, 2024

Born in: Manhattan, NY
Resided in: Hamden, CT

Ronald (Ron) B. Remer, 74, of Hamden, passed away in the comfort of his home on October 8, 2024. Ron, the son of the late Sidney and Mae Horvitz Remer, was born in Manhattan, NY on August 14, 1950. Ron shared his life with his wife of 48 years, Geraldine (Gerry) McCann Remer. He is also survived by the sons he was so proud of: David Remer and his wife Carla of Wallingford, and Matthew Remer and his wife Casey of Penfield, NY. His five grandchildren, Sydney, Arlo, Nathan, Matilda, and Sylvie Remer were the joys of his life. He was predeceased by his sister, Leah (Lynne) Allen Shwartz. Ron also leaves behind a plethora of much-loved brothers- and sisters-in-laws, nieces and nephews, cousins, and friends new and old.

A former resident of New Haven, Ronald lived in Hamden for the past 25 years.

Before his retirement Ron was a self-employed manufacturers’ representative in the promotional products industry. His love of people made him a natural salesman and the pens and other imprinted items he loved to give away opened the door to all kinds of new friends and experiences over the years.

Ron found great joy in spending time with family and friends. Whether it was a gathering of 40 or more for Thanksgiving, a game of bocce with old friends, or having all the grandchildren and nieces and nephews scrambling for Easter eggs, he enjoyed bringing people together.  He always made sure everyone’s glasses were full, and joy and laughter were being shared by all.

Before his extended illness curtailed his activities, Ron had begun to embrace semi-retirement, working part time at the Yale British Art Gallery, as well as taking on community projects such as working with the Spring Glen association on Whitney Avenue traffic control, volunteering for Hamden CERT, and picking up trash on his daily walks.

In addition to his love of people, Ron had a passion for music, nature, good food, and travel.  He often sprinkled song lyrics into his conversations. Over the years there were so many trips: NE lakes or the Irish countryside with the extended family, Hawaii or the Caribbean with the in-laws, US Sites, European road trips, Mediterranean cruises with Gerry, Disney with the grandkids-you name it, he wanted to help organize it, and always added an element of fun to the endeavor.

Friends are invited to visit with Ronald’s family from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. on Sunday, October 13th, at Beecher & Bennett Funeral Home, 2300 Whitney Ave., Hamden. A service will begin at 1:00 p.m. in the funeral home, followed by burial in Centerville Cemetery. If you wish to make a memorial contribution the family suggests either Gaylord Specialty Hospital or Connecticut Hospice, who supported Ron and his family at the beginning and end of his illness. To send condolences to Ron’s family, please see obituary at www.beecherandbennett.com.

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Visitation: October 13, 2024 11:00 am - 1:00 pm

Beecher & Bennett Funeral Service - Hamden
2300 Whitney Avenue
Hamden, CT 06518

203-288-0800

Funeral Service: October 13, 2024 1:00 pm

Beecher & Bennett Funeral Service - Hamden
2300 Whitney Avenue
Hamden, CT 06518

203-288-0800

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  1. Gerry and family,
    Deepest condolences to you all on Ron’s passing. He was a pleasure to be around every time we saw him. Brother Joe loved him and Ron responded.
    Charles and Lily Flannigan

  2. Dear Gerry and Family,
    My condolences to you and yours. May peace be with you during this difficult time.
    Karen Weil

    • Hamakom yenachem eschem botch shar availiem btzion uveyerushailyim.
      May there be consolement from Hashem who gives life and may his memory be blessed. In our generation of tinokim shenishboyim (growing up in a world of falsehood) Hashem should look upon his many good deeds and smile.

  3. Words are not enough to express our sorrow but I hope shared sorrow is somewhat less

    Ron was loved by all and will be missed by all that knew him

    Our thoughts and prayers Gerry David and Matt

    Diane and Joe

  4. Was a pleasure of knowing Ron in the industry. He was one of the good guys to be around. Ron will be missed by many.

  5. Your smile and gentle nature was infectious, you always made time and made people feel sincerely welcome, I am proud to have gotten to know you and call you my friend! RIP my brother, the world was better having you in it, as was mine! I’ll see you after!

  6. Ronnie was one of my favorite people in this whole wide world.
    Not because he was my cousin but for his fun, loving, gentle, witty,
    humorous and ever so caring nature. A real Gem of a human being.
    Dear Gerry, David, Matt and your children, you were always
    there for him. He placed you all on a pedestal where you all belong.
    Sending love always, Lisa and the Gordon family……and thank you for carrying on the REMER name. Rest well Ronnie Dear, may you be in the best of company.

  7. Ron & i grew up in new haven connecticut. We went to to the same elementary school, welch on congress avenue. Ron’s father took ron & i to a new york yankee’s game. Unfortunately ron & i lost touch when my family & i moved to baltimore maryland when i was thirteen years old. My condolences to all of ron’s family.

  8. Gerry, I was so saddened to read of Ron’s passing. I only knew him in his illness, but what a sensational man it sounds like he was. I hope you, your family and friends can hold those special memories close. Knowing him for a brief time at Clelian Center, it gave me great joy when he greeted me every morning by name. Then it came time to take off his coat and he’d do everything in his power to help. I’d always be nervous about hurting him. I can still hear his voice saying “no hurt” and we’d work together.

    Your family will be in my prayers as you endure this difficult time.

  9. Geri,
    I’m so sorry you are experiencing this loss. I pray you find comfort in your memories.

    Sincerely,
    Ursula

  10. Such a gentle soul Ron was. I am sorry for the heartache his family is going through…hopefully all these many wonderful memories of Ron will help you through this rough time.


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