July 8, 1961 ~ June 28, 2022


Resided in: Hamden, CT

Theresa Lee Grimshaw O’Neill, 60, peacefully passed away surrounded by family on June 28, 2022 after courageously battling lung cancer for two years. She was born on July 8, 1961 to the late Concetta and Thomas Grimshaw, Sr. A lifelong resident of Hamden, Teri graduated from Hamden High School before attending Stone Academy.
Theresa will be lovingly remembered by her four daughters and sons-in-law, Catherine and Sean Buck of Guilford, Tara and Mark Fogel of Hamden, Margaret O’Neill and fiancé Timothy Miett of Worcester, and Bridget O’Neill-Abdallah and Tamer Abdallah of North Haven; their father, Thomas O’Neill; her grandchildren, Killian & Aoife Buck and Emilia Abdallah; her siblings, Connie Ann (Carl) Langner, Thomas (Maria) Grimshaw, Jr., and Patricia (Jon) Pearson; and her many nieces, nephews, and great-nieces and nephews, who will never forget their beloved Auntie Tootie.
Teri’s playful and generous spirit revealed itself in everything she did. When her girls were younger, that meant pool games, crafts and endless summer activities. More recently, she loved her new role as ‘Banana,’ spoiling her three beautiful grandchildren. Theresa basked in life’s smallest moments. Some of her favorite pastimes were camping with family, bowling with her mom and siblings, and dancing to her favorite tunes, especially Meatloaf. Before returning to CT in 2020, Teri treasured the years she spent and the friends she made while living and working by the beach in Hampton, NH. Above all else, her greatest joy came from spending time with her four daughters, of whom she was beyond proud.
Friends are invited to visit with Theresa’s family on Tuesday, July 5th from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. at BEECHER & BENNETT FUNERAL HOME, 2300 Whitney Ave., Hamden. All are invited to go directly to St. Rita’s Church, 1620 Whitney Ave., Hamden on Wednesday morning for a Memorial Mass of Christian Burial to be celebrated at 11:00 a.m. Burial will be private. Donations in Theresa’s honor may be sent to Smilow Cancer Hospital at www.givetoynhh.org.

 

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Visitation: July 5, 2022 4:00 - 7:00 pm

Beecher & Bennett Funeral Service - Hamden
2300 Whitney Avenue
Hamden, CT 06518

203-288-0800

Memorial Mass: July 6, 2022 11:00 am

St. Rita Church
1620 Whitney Avenue
Hamden, CT 06517

203-248-5513

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  1. Sincere condolences to all of Terri’s Family , especially her daughters at this very sad time
    Ye are in our thoughts and prayers
    May Terri rest in eternal peace🙏🙏
    Noreen, Patsy, Katie and Paudie xxxx💚💛

  2. I’m so sorry, Connie, Tom and Trish, and to the entire O’Neil family. Teri and I where friends for a long time. I’ll never forget our laughs, the piecing she gave me at her kitchen table..I thought my mom would have a heart attack when she saw it. There was Arden House and while our daily Thursday s at Jimmy’s. We lost touch over the years once I moved to New York. I always will remember Terri! RIP very saddened to see, Prayers…

  3. Ye who seeks me will find me as long as ye who seeks me seeks me with all your heart.

    See you in Heaven

  4. What a beautiful ❤️ tribute to Terri!! I’m praying for the entire family. Tom O’Neill, I’m so very sorry..We did have some fun times. This video was beautiful!!

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